Changes at 22
I've always noticed that I've been gradually changing, for better or worse, as I grew older. However, I've noticed a spike in these changes significantly in the last 2 years or so..whether it is because I'm out of college or that I'm feeling the weight of adulthood pushing down on me..I've decided that these changes are good. I've been trying to push away these changes~ my sense of style, music, tastes, interests~ but I think living through my past self would be useless. So, here are the changes that I've been experiencing, and that I plan to embrace and hold onto at 22 years old.
1. My music taste. I'm starting to get real sick of EDM, and starting to enjoy instrumentals, alternative, and more classic rock.
2. My religion. I've always considered myself a Christian, but the more of the world that I see and experience, the more I've realized that to focus on one faith is ignorant. Appreciating more cultures, diversity, and religions.
3. My fashion. I no longer see the beauty in crop tops and high waisted shorts, but rather the beauty in one's individual style.
4. Being skinny. God, I was so skinny my entire life. I've gained 30 pounds in the last year, which was shocking and upsetting at first, but I've realized that I should accept my slowing metabolism. Did you know that slim-thick is a popular thing nowadays? I'm starting to see "skinny" differently. Gonna embrace my thunder thighs and butt.
5. Leisure. No more partying. I feel tired, alone, and hungover after every party/club. Finding joy in staying home, relaxing, and going outdoors.
6. Friendships. I could name a ton of toxic relationships in my past. Luckily at 22, I'm slowly getting rid of all them, making more time for the ones who support and challenge me, and make me feel happy overall.
7. Education. I value education way more than I did in high school. I know what it takes to be comfortable and thrive in life, and that means working hard to get my degree as an SLP.
8. Shopping. Fuck shopping. I've spent so many countless dollars on trendy clothes and beauty supplies, only to have them collecting dust at a garage sale each year. If I'm going to spend time shopping, it shall be on travel, memories with loved ones, and the occasional delicious meal :)
9. Insecurities. I used to be so insecure about having lots of friends, looking good, and appearing happy. Beginning to realize how useless this is, and starting to embrace my wonderful few friends and my awesome thrift shop finds...and what a relief its been.
Change is good. It's what keeps us thriving and not simply living. What are some changes you would like to embrace?
1. My music taste. I'm starting to get real sick of EDM, and starting to enjoy instrumentals, alternative, and more classic rock.
2. My religion. I've always considered myself a Christian, but the more of the world that I see and experience, the more I've realized that to focus on one faith is ignorant. Appreciating more cultures, diversity, and religions.
3. My fashion. I no longer see the beauty in crop tops and high waisted shorts, but rather the beauty in one's individual style.
4. Being skinny. God, I was so skinny my entire life. I've gained 30 pounds in the last year, which was shocking and upsetting at first, but I've realized that I should accept my slowing metabolism. Did you know that slim-thick is a popular thing nowadays? I'm starting to see "skinny" differently. Gonna embrace my thunder thighs and butt.
5. Leisure. No more partying. I feel tired, alone, and hungover after every party/club. Finding joy in staying home, relaxing, and going outdoors.
6. Friendships. I could name a ton of toxic relationships in my past. Luckily at 22, I'm slowly getting rid of all them, making more time for the ones who support and challenge me, and make me feel happy overall.
7. Education. I value education way more than I did in high school. I know what it takes to be comfortable and thrive in life, and that means working hard to get my degree as an SLP.
8. Shopping. Fuck shopping. I've spent so many countless dollars on trendy clothes and beauty supplies, only to have them collecting dust at a garage sale each year. If I'm going to spend time shopping, it shall be on travel, memories with loved ones, and the occasional delicious meal :)
9. Insecurities. I used to be so insecure about having lots of friends, looking good, and appearing happy. Beginning to realize how useless this is, and starting to embrace my wonderful few friends and my awesome thrift shop finds...and what a relief its been.
Change is good. It's what keeps us thriving and not simply living. What are some changes you would like to embrace?
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